- Wednesday, February 8, 2012
- Posted in dreadlocks,family,home

I am sitting here tucked into the corner of my fabric covered couch with the filtered light from the clouds outside the window warming my cheeks. I know I promised a continuation post from my previous dread-cutting-brushing video but the Universe had other plans. We all caught a few local buggies going around town. First a chest cold and then a stomach flu. As much as there are many reasons it is hard when everyone in the house is sick at the same time, there is also something a bit romantic about it. We’re given this permission to stay in our jammy-jams all day and snuggle on the couch for hours at a time and let the chores go just for a few days. We curl up and read or watch films we’d otherwise not make time for. Each of us taking turns at being nurses for one another. Then we are forced at times to be utterly selfless. When all you want to do is lay in bed under the covers, there are others more in need that you must tend to. Its a practice in love, absolute utter love.
With all of this slowing down, I have done almost nothing with my short nubbed out dreadlocks. I have only been able to brush out 10 of them in the front. I am brushing from the front to the back. My head has been achy for about a week with both bugs hitting me hard, so I needed to leave it alone. But most importantly, I really want to be in a space of feeling present and with full intention when I brush them out one by one…because it is all part of the journey for me. A way to savor. That is my word for “slow” these days as I have always known I go about things slowly. And at times in the past, it was made into something wrong about me by myself or others. Now I just embrace that I love to savor what is in front of me.
I will continue with my dread journey in the next post but until then, here are a few images of the last few days that I wanted to share…
Oh how I wish I looked THIS cute after I vomited…

What happens when you mix long hair with a remote controlled flying helicopter…

So, note to self…when playing with helicopter, wear Cedarbun…

And…my phone broke to pieces and I didn’t have it for a few weeks but felt so blessed to find out we were able to upgrade to a iPhone 4S! But look at my yummy new bamboo Deer cover from Grove…{sigh}…


{thank you to Sus for guiding me to Grove. she is my go to friend for gorgeous gadgets}















February 8, 2012
Oh gosh, Cedar is so cute in these pictures. Hahah. That is such an obvious statement, but his face when the helicopter is caught in his hair is TOO MUCH. geez.
February 8, 2012
A deer phone for a dear human. Loving the photos of Cedar! Wishing I could curl up behind you on the couch and gently help you comb.
February 9, 2012
I hope you and the other bohos are feeling much better now. I love the photo of Cedar and the Cedarbun [especially when combined with a Superman top].
February 9, 2012
Accepting my slow approach to life changes is something that i very much struggle with. I always thought I have to change that in me. Maybe it is just something more that I have to accept about me.
Wishing you and your beautiful family all the best. Get well soon!
February 9, 2012
You for perfectly captured those special moments of mothering a sick little one and in turn being nourished by them. It is all a little romantic, isn’t it? I hope that you are all feeling rested and well soon.
I want to share with you that I have finally, after many years, found the bravery to begin my own dread journey. You lifted me up. Thank you.
Here is how my journey began just days ago…
http://lessandmorewithfour.wordpress.com/2012/02/09/my-dreadlock-journey-begins/
February 9, 2012
Hello my sweet baby seestor! I’m making you a scarf as we speak. Thank you so much for yet, another care package of ” gentle liquid happiness” Love the yumily chocs too! Cedar is looking amazing *WOW* :O He’s grown since Xmas pics. I love him.xoxo Think of you everyday I love you Denise!!!~~ Seestor Pamela xo ((((HUGS))))
February 9, 2012
I hope you are all feeling better soon. Cedar is so cute in these photos.
February 10, 2012
Oh, feel better! Glad you can soak in this time together and look past the yuckiness to find the beauty of it all.
February 10, 2012
All sicks at the same time has something romantic indeed… gives the chance to express love and care and celebrate being together!
Get well!
Hugs from a hot Buenos Aires.
February 10, 2012
Oh, so sorry you are all sick! But wow! Ceder is changing so fast! Wonderful photos and here are some hot tea wishes for a speedy recovery!
February 11, 2012
Cedar is all kinds of cute. Bless his beautiful heart. Glad that you are all feeling better again.
February 13, 2012
Hey Lovely lady.
Just watched your video. I brushed my 7 year old babies in 2007, took ages but was defiantly the right way to do it. Running my fingers through my hair again was wonderful. xxx Gabi xxx
p.s I have a giveaway you may like so come check it out
big love
February 14, 2012
Healing thoughts for you and yours. I also had long beautiful dreadlocks once opon a time. Then there came the time when I needed to let go of them. As exciting and scary as that transition was to face, the freedom of letting it all go was crazy liberating. I was able to save about 4 or 5 inches of my hair and it was beautiful, but most of all it was light. Physically and energetically. I have read your blog for years, loving your gentle words and beautiful photos. This is the first time I comment here and really just to say ‘go for it’…and all the way. You won’t regret it.
February 16, 2012
That photo of Cedar’s expression with the helicopter in his hair is PRICELESS. Ha! That made my day.
Get well, be well.